Month: October 2016

This is an interesting video, I do not agree with everything it contains- mainly the parts asserting modern American conservatism has a focus on individual self-improvement (it hasn’t been for a while with the cuckservatives), but nevertheless it does contain several important truths that are perfectly in line with Red Pill neomasculine thinking.

 

 

Unlike SJW belief systems that claim utopia can be achieved the moment various extrinsic problems can be addressed, Red Pill neomasculine thinking asserts fundamental change for all things starts at the level of the individual.

You cannot defeat the forces of regressivism just by resisting them as you are- you first need to improve yourself as a man and embark of the masculine journey of improvement and discovery.

Unlike SJWs and their ilk who wallow in personal weakness and victimisation as part of their belief system, seeking to blame others and demand the world change to accomidate them, the neomasculine man refuses to be a victim and blame others for failings that are objectively his own. He realises that to address the external problems he needs to start with himself first.

This is why unlike feminism and other progressive ideologies have an external locus of control and focus mainly on attacking sexism, racism and whatever isms, neomasculinity focuses on improving the Red Pill man first, the problems are to be overcome by the man who is ready to take them on.

Have an individual locus of control, a masculine man has control of his direction and actions.

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The Eternal Delusion of The Victimised Mind

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The Red Pill with many unpleasant truths. The experience of dealing with hard truths for the first time in his life can be overwhelming  for the beta Blue Pill, especially if he has not only invested a lot into his Blue Pill paradigms are not only utterly invalid, but have also been cynically used against by others.

How one responds to all this matters, a common first reaction towards the harsh truth of the Red Pill is to delve into self-victimhood and never go beyond there. While these men have been exposed to the fundamental truths of the Red Pill, they don’t delve deeper into understanding it or seeking to find harmony and acceptance with what they can do with their knowledge.

Rather, they focus on how they have been taken on a ride by others more aware of Red Pill realities- it could be the system that he now realises is actually rigged against them, it could be the women who have been cynically manipulating them for resources while treating them with contempt. They focus only on how they have been victimised as a Beta Chump, with the Red Pill serving mainly as a detector for finding more ways by which they have been cheated.

Over time they become resentful, bitter, neurotic and jaded individuals. They start to see potential threats and possible victimisation in everything, even when it is not there or highly unlikely. Even innocent things that are not meant to be threats are taken as such.

This is where you find many of your bitter, defeatist, self-proclaimed  MGTOW. Those that have taken the Red Pill but never got beyond the stage of accepting the bitter truths. In many respects they are not very much different from your extreme Black Lives Matter activists who see every act as a possible racism, or neurotic feminists finding sexism and misogyny in everything.

Basically these people self-victimise, their lives are in an eternal nightmare because they insist on playing the role of the victim. Indeed they may often even enjoy it perversely because it gives them something to moan about in order to get their cathartic release. Playing the victim allows them to blame others for everything, ignore any hard work that might need to be done to improve their situation, and feel that everyone owes them a living.

Over time the self-victimised live in an eternal delusion, they expect the world to conform to their demands before they can be happy instead of realising that they should be the ones changing their perspective. They expect special treatment based on their victimhood. They create enemies of chosen groups of people which they feel victimised by, justifying all sorts of atrocities as legitimate “lashing out”. These people generally become insufferable because their entire identity has been consumed by them being a professional victim, and they often become time and resource drains while providing little in return.

While some groups can get away with such behaviour because they are considered “disadvantaged” by the progressive narrative, as a cissexual hetrosexual majority man you will most likely be ignored and ridiculed should you try to be a professional victim. This is why the bitter MRA and MGTOW are generally ignored and left to sulk in the corner.

You aren’t a woman. You don’t have a pussy pass. The world isn’t going to care if you declare yourself a victim, especially if you are declaring it based on unpleseant Red Pill truths that the rest of the Blue Pills and their masters have a vested interest in suppressing.

It is not enough to just know the Red Pill without a neomasculine framework to digest and understand it by. You need a working philosophy to know what to do with the truth.

Don’t be a professional delusional victim, it only makes you weaker. Know that the only way you are going to be a better man is if you accept the harsh realities of the Red Pill, square your shoulders for the task ahead, and set yourself on your masculine journey of self-improvement. This is the only way you are going to live a life that is worth living.

The Aging Party Girl

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One of the first Red Pill truths you learn when you unplug are the real, previously hidden gender dynamics of the dating marketplace that you are blissfully unaware of while you were a Beta Chump.

Among one of these will be understanding of the fact that while a woman starts with massive choosing power in the dating marketplace, that value fades rapidly as her ability to attract a high status mate is degraded by the inexorable passage of time.

While men have it rough at first, should they play their cards right and spend those difficult years building themselves up their masculine journey of self-development they stand to gain massively in choosing power as they age.

Hence the saying “Women age like sports cars, men age like fine wine”.

Openly articulating these realities to friends and family is a massive temptation when you are a fresh Red Pill, but it would beehove you play it cool and keep your cards closer to your chest. While there is still a fair bit of Red Pill awarness in traditional Singaporean asian culture where these truths and recoginsed can be articulated without causing excessive butthurt, your nonimally feminist english-educated latte liberal circle are trapped in gynocentric paradigm that seeks to maximise female choosing power and will find such truths extremely offensive.

The articulation of such truths is not just offensive to your english-educated latte liberal circle, it is also viscerally frightening because on a deep level they know that it’s true and the spread and acceptance of such knowledge among the thirsty Beta chumps the latte liberal circle relies on for ground troops will dry up when they start unplugging en-masse and seeking a better deal for themselves.

At the end of the day maximising the feminine imperative through feminist gurl-power is an illusion that requires to compliance of men to play along with it’s memes in order to succeed, which is why feminism tries extremely hard to hide the true realities of the dating marketplace from blue pill men, convincing them that female value in the dating marketplace is constant, always high, with no need for a woman to ever provide any sort of a value proposition.

Observe your liberal female friends in your circle and you will start seeing this dynamic at play- that of attempting to convince the world that their value as a romantic prospect gets higher as they age, even if they are the sort that exhibit very few characteristics men would look for as wife material, the result of spending their late teens and 20s living the empowered party-girl lifestyle and treating any sort of notion that they need to develop a true value proposition for men beyond their looks with contempt.

The aging party girl has had her fun, but now she is starting to realise that they party won’t last forever and she still hasn’t locked down a man that she feels is worthy of her (notice she will never ask if she is worthy of a man). The one-night stands are starting to dry up and she’s noticing that attractive badboys she had relied on for flings are starting to hit on younger, hotter girls. Even the orbiting beta chumps she used to rely on are starting to orbit them. The party is stopping, the people that provided her validation are going to other girls.

Girls that she used to be.

There are several paths that the aging party girl will take at this point, and knowing the signs and understanding the psychology of these behaviours are extremely important for a Red Pill man.

Some of them attempt to fight the clock, they layer on the makeup and post carefully cultivated images of themselves on social media, presenting a carefully cultivated facade to the rest of the world to show that they “still have it”. The aging party girl doing this usually still has some marketplace value left and is attempting to milk the most out of what she still has before it is all gone. These are the attempted statues, the ones who have no idea what to do outside of their looks and are doing their darnedest to fight the effects of entropy. A red pill man will quickly see past this facade and recognise that many of these women don’t really have much of a value proposition in an LTR beyond knowing how to put on makeup, because they had spent most of their years of prime attractiveness relying on looks instead of working on other more valuable, feminine traits.

Others go through what is known as the “epiphany phase”, where they declare that they have gotten all the partying and one-night stands with bad boys “out of their system” and are now ready to settle down in an LTR. This turn over a new leaf is often more inspired by the impending fear of the next few decades as a lonely spinster with no male investment (after enjoying years of the gravy train from badboys and beta chumps) than it is by a true desire to be a monogamous, feminine woman. She might ensnare a beta willing to enwife used goods but is unlikely to truly respect him as a masculine man, with the marriage being highly likely to end in disaster for him. Red pill men will quickly see through the declarations of the aging party girl turning over a new leaf.

The third path, and one that is increasingly popular, is to double down and go full feminist and cats. If commitment and investment cannot be extracted from men individually because she now lacks a value proposition, the aging party girl has one last refuge in the gynocentric systems of feminism. This is an attempt to change the rules of the game, to rewrite things to be more in her favour. She will, via feminism try to redefine things to say that spinsters with no wife skills are attractive? Aged, overbearing, overeducated fluff-degree holding, promiscuous women are who men should marry instead of faithful, feminine women maternal instincts. If all else fails the aged party girl can use feminism to force soceity to subside her spinsterhood via welfare and demands for everyone to regard her cats as important to civilisational continuity as children.

Look at the liberal aging party girls in your social circle nowadays, how many of these behaviours do you see? Know the tells and see the signs, you can tell a lot about them.

So It Begins

There are people actively trying to import the American culture wars into Singapore, and 2016 will be known as the year where things start to get hot.

The various memeplexes of the social justice movement have been gradually extending their tentacles across the internet and slowly infecting other cultures with access to Western popular culture. While the spread is somewhat slow in Asia due to language and cultural barriers, Singapore contains a seizable english-educated graduate population of millennials that are especially vulnerable to the SJW rot.

And we can see the rot has taken hold and is starting to spread.

I have been watching this situation for a while, and the number of local social justice incidents are certainly seeing an uptrend this year. Beyond the mainstream antics of AWARE, Sangeetha (who has now relocated to annoy the Australians) and some local academics, SJW incidents have started to appear from the grassroots with an emergence of common latte liberals self-identifying with the SJW cause.

Unlike SJWs, feminists and the ilk who are pathologically bound towards having a distorted view of reality, we do not have the luxury of self-delusion as unplugged Red Pills. The SJW infiltration is starting to go hot and they are looking to start a cultural war, you have to be ready to take them on.

My prediction is that SJWism will becoming increasingly popular in in the future, riding on the glut of disillusioned millennials looking for the next big cause to jump on following the collapse of the political opposition in the 2015 GE. The new era of freedom and opposition resurgence predicted following the death of LKY never materialised, and the new heros and icons leftist millennials need to look for will no longer be in political opposition but rather local social justice ideologues.

So mark Talon’s words- if you are a majority male in Singapore, you will be a target. If you are a masculine man, you will be a target. If you show any sign of being anything but in line with their dogma, you will be a target.

Now all this may seem alarmist but Singapore contains several key advantages over America in how it can resist the influx of SJWs in the culture wars. There is still a silent majority that will not drink the SJW kool-aid. The SJW narrative at present is still restricted to the english educated latte liberals who haven’t found a way to translate it to the various ethnic demographics. Locals in general are still practical and K-selected, realising that unpleasant realities need to be addressed to keep Singapore going. These render the idealogical and social landscape of Singapore more defensible to the SJW rot.

But that may change. As I have noted, Singapore is slowly shifting to r-selected mindsets over time due to affluence. With anticompetitive r-selection comes more acceptance of SJWism.

As a masculine Singaporean man your job is to start fortifying your social circles against the SJW rot. Subtly influence your trusted friends and let them know that there is an Red Pill insurgency that is willing and ready to resist the SJW culture wars. Know who are your enemies and start being aware.

Start building and preparing your tribe.

Because tumultuous times are up ahead.

 

Sunk Costs

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“If all else fails, retreat”
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Life will be full of ups and downs for a man, especially so if you have taken the Red Pill and have set yourself on the masculine journey of self-discovery and improvement. The masculine journey puts you on a path to face many challenges head on and more often than not you will fail before you find success. Becoming a better man is often a case of two steps forward, one step back.

But as long as you are moving forward, you are making progress.

An inability to deal with failure properly is a failing that has ruined many a man, this is especially so for Blue Pill betas who have invested countless years into their Blue Pill paradigms only to find that it is not working. Instead of realising that all these are sunk costs that cannot be recovered they waste time and energy trying to make it work, doubling down on their Blue Pill paradigms in a desperate attempt make a bad investment turn out for something. All these are sunk costs, they can’t be recovered.

An inability to deal with sunk costs is why some men choose to remain weak, effeminate “nice” guys despite that demonstrably failing as a means to acquire the romantic success they so desire. The notion that all that investment into that persona is a bad one that isn’t worth much is too painful to consider. This is why some even double down and become full blown manginas shrilling for the feminist cause against their own interests, in a delusional  attempt to think that turning up the weak man supplication actually raises their nonexistent standing with women.

An inability to deal with sunk costs is why some men afflicted with “oneitis” become obsessed with a single woman and lose themselves in the process, they refuse to believe that all that investment (usually doing all the wrong things) isn’t going to pay out and dogmatically pursue a bad stock in a delusional belief that things might suddenly turn around.

An inability to deal with sunk costs render many men unable to put their baggage of their past behind and work towards truly realising themselves. Letting go of your sunk cost Beta Chump baggage is one of the first steps towards your Red Pill emancipation.

While Red Pills on the masculine journey are less prone to such Blue Pill fallacies, an inability to let go of sunk costs is a common mistake that they often make. Learning to be more assertive to climb up the social hierarchy often means one puts themselves in situations that involve challenge and conflict, and very often that also means one will end up in a situation that is beyond their current abilities.

Learn to let go. Analyse the situation objectively and realise what can, or cannot be done. Do not let yourself be ruled by your pride.

Know when to recognise when things are sunk costs and don’t get sucked into trying to recover them. That fustratingly Blue Pill mangina friend of yours is too far gone to be unplugged? He is just a time and resource sink that will drain you of productive opportunities unplugging more receptive men. He is a sunk cost.

That relationship going nowhere with a woman not aligned with you masculine mission that is obviously not wife material? She is a sunk cost that you are better off the sooner you shed. That time and energy is better spent on women who are worthy of you.

Vet your friends, associates, businesses and activities carefully, weed out all the sunk costs that you are futilely chasing. You will fail, learn from it, get better. Don’t be like your old Beta Blue Pill self that keeps pouring energy into something that will never bear fruit.

Know that sometimes it is better to let go, to retreat and regroup. Being a successful masculine man is more than just being bullheaded and persistent, it also comes with a fine appreciation of how to best play your cards and spend the limited time and resources that you have. Your journey should be about becoming stronger and better, not banging your head on the wall.

Leave the sunk costs behind, and embrace true opportunity.

 

Respect

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Though most may not have noticed it, the popular concept of “respect” has shifted in recent times, with this change accelerating as first-world civillisation shifts from K to r selection, and from a masculine value model to a feminine one.

In the past, when resources were scarce and security uncertain, respect was afforded on the basis of an individual’s contributions and achievements to civillisation. A person’s value, and hence the respect afforded to them was based upon merit. This rendered respect a valuable commodity as it was a reward for, and an indicator of a person’s value to the tribe.

People acting in pro-social ways were given this respect as a recognition of their contributions. This was why respect was given to men being great providers and acting with courage and valour to protect family and community while the leech and coward were not given any. This was why a feminine, faithful woman good at raising her children was respected more than the promiscuous shrew with no maternal instincts.

The concept of respect in a K-selected environment such as a developing civillisation on the rise is one that is based upon a masculine model of value. Respect has to be earned, and it is based on the value and virtue that you have. This is the basis of the honour code in many traditional cultures, and why respect or the lack of it is treated so seriously.

This concept of respect has shifted dramatically in recent decades, to a concept of it that is quite different from it’s historical model. Respect, and all it’s associated perks is now dished on on the basis of inherent value. Everybody and everything has to be afforded respect, regardless of the actual merits that these individuals and behaviours give to everyone else.

This is not surprising when you realise that a civillisation that has achieved a comfortable first-world standard of living tends to shift towards anticompetitive r-selection and a more feminine value model of things. After all when the bounty is plenty it makes less sense to be a competitive K-selected individual wasting energy in competition and instead engineering more socialist models of things so that resources can be diverted to all without the need for competition. Among one of these social resources coveted by the r-selected rabbit people is the respect originally won by the endeavors of competitive K-selected people.

With a redefinition of respect to be dished out based on identity, and hence inherent value, everybody can have access to the social perks afforded by respect without the corresponding difficult and dirty work that was needed in the bad old days of competitive living.

Everyone is equally deserving of respect, regardless of their choices or what they have achieved. The single mom who has made poor choices and who will now burden soceity by demanding the state be the baby daddy of her likely-to-be dysfunctional kids is as deserving of respect as a traditional woman who had raised functional children with a father. The fatsporation woman swelling up to the behemoth proportions of morbid obesity on a fat-acceptance crusade demands that you respect her as much as another who is not on a path to be a massive future drain on limited medical resources.

This is why anticompetitive people such as Social Justice Warriors and Feminists are big on demanding respect, without ever seeing the need to demonstrate virtue worthy of it. If respect was ever dished out on the old model of someone needing to earn it these r-selected ideologies would never see the light of day.

The honour code of societies in which respect actually meant something would seem very strange to people coming from an r-selected comfortable civillisation where it has been socialised, dished out by demand as a stamp of validation to everyone, every group and every behaviour.

A soceity that socialises respect makes it cheap.

What the rabbit people do not realise is that something once valuable made cheap will not maintain the same value that it once did. Respect nowadays is theatre, a vague code of platitudes and politically correct courteous behaviour. It now lacks the power to inspire people to act in pro-social ways and aspire to greater things. A civillisation that socialises respect cheapens it and shifts into decline, it gives out incentives to everyone and everything, and loses

As a masculine man, you need to realise that respect is not given, it is earned. See the underlying dynamic of much of the modern demands made for respect and call them out for what they are- anticompetitive attempts to be given the perks of virtue and value without having earned them with real work.