This caused a bit of a stir on the interwebz a couple of months back, long story short- man praises his wife for being a submissive spouse that supports him in his marriage, gets both accolades and brickbats for that.
This man does not to give any indication of being Red Pill, but it appears that he missed most of the memos about expected Blue Pill behaviour from men since birth and somehow stumbled onto his own working theory of what a man should look for in a spouse and how he should conduct his marriage. Here’s his post in total, poor command of english and all:
THIS LADY SIMPLY LEFT ME SPEECHLESS.
MANY OF MY FRIENDS ACTUALLY CAME TO ME AND ASKED “JERALD, WHY DID YOU SETTLE DOWN SO EARLY?”
IN MY MIND, I THOUGHT, “SO EARLY” IS RELATIVE. 25 YEARS OLD CAN BE EARLY TO SOME, CAN BE LATE TO OTHERS. BUT TO ME, I FIND THAT THE SETTLING DOWN AT THE AGE OF 25 IS PERFECT. THE WORLD WILL SHIFT AND ALIGN FOR A MADE UP MIND… 先成家，再立业 … SETTLE DOWN EARLY AND FOCUS MY ENERGY ON MY BUSINESS …
SO LET ME SHARE WITH YOU WHY I CHOSE HER…
SHE IS A SUBMISSIVE WIFE. WAIT A MINUTE… BEFORE YOU THINK I’M MCP… LET ME CLARIFY… SHE IS SOMEONE WHO REALLY KNOWS HOW TO TAKE CARE OF ME. A WIFE WHO SAYS THAT SHE WANTS TO COOK FOR ME… (MAJORITY OF THE LADIES NOWADAYS DON’T BOTHER WITH HOUSEHOLD CHORES OR COOK FOR THEIR HUSBAND HAHA… NO WAY… HER MUM BROUGHT HER UP WELL.) AND BOTHERS TO WAKE UP EARLY IN THE MORNING TO PREPARE BREAKFAST FOR ME. SHE GIVES ME VIP TREATMENT EVERY DAY. THAT’S MY EX-GIRLFRIEND. MY CURRENT WIFE…
SHE IS VERY WILLING IS SUBMIT TO ME. A LOT OF PEOPLE DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE POWER WHEN SHE DOES THAT. THE POWER OF SUBMISSION ISN’T WHERE YOU KOWTOW TO SOMEONE OR OPEN THE DOOR FOR THEM. IT IS JUST SUBMITTING TO A COMMON MISSION WHERE THERE IS AN ABSENCE OF REBELLION.
THE MISSION WE ARE IN IS TO LEAD A PROSPEROUS, UNITED AND BLISSFUL FAMILY. SHE IS WHOLEHEARTEDLY WILLING TO LET ME BE THE HEAD OF THE HOME AND CHOOSE TO PLAY THE MOST IMPORTANT ROLE IN MY LIFE (MY NECK). UNKNOWINGLY, WHEN SHE CHOOSES TO SUBMIT TO ME, SURPRISINGLY, SHE HAS THE POWER.
ALLOW ME TO EXPLAIN WITH AN EXAMPLE. WHEN A MENTOR TRIES TO IMPART WHAT HE KNOWS TO HIS MENTEE, IF THE MENTEE CHOOSES TO QUESTION EVERYTHING HE SAID, THE MENTOR KNOWS THIS PERSON IS NOT COACHABLE. SIMPLY BECAUSE THERE IS NO TRUST AND THE MENTEE HAS NOT SUBMITTED TO HIM.
ON THE OTHER HAND, IF THE MENTEE CHOOSES TO DO WHATEVER (EXCEPT ANYTHING ILLEGAL, IMMORAL, UNETHICAL) THE MENTOR SAYS, THE MENTEE HAS THE POWER BECAUSE THE MENTOR WILL FEEL BE EVEN MORE OBLIGATED TO HELP THAT MENTEE. SO WHEN MY WIFE SUBMITS TO BE, ALL THE MORE I WILL LISTEN TO HER.
AT THE END OF THE DAY, MEN WANT RESPECT (WHICH HE GETS WHEN A WOMAN SUBMITS), WOMEN WANT LOVE (THEY WANT THE MAN TO DO WHATEVER TO MAKE HER HAPPY) … GIVE LOVE AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE RESPECT…
THAT’S WHY I TURN DOWN INVITATIONS TO GO DRINKING. I HAVE GOT A GOOD LIQUOR TOLERANCE BECAUSE OF MY DAD BUT I DON’T LIKE TO DRINK. I PREFER TO STAY HOME AND NOT WORRY MY LOVED ONE. I WANT TO STAY HEALTHY AND ENJOY MY WEALTH IN THE FUTURE.
I CHOOSE TO SPEND THAT TIME WITH MY WIFE. THESE ARE THE WAYS I SUBMIT TO HER TOO BECAUSE ONE OF HER “LOVE LANGUAGES” IS TIME.
TAKE A LOOK AT THIS TEXT SENT BY HER!!
ALWAYS SO SWEET AND TAKE SO MUCH INITIATIVE TO MAKE ME FEEL LOVED.
BTW, LOVE IS AN ACTION WORD. NOT A NOUN!
Shots fired! Shots fired! How many Red Pill ideas do you see there?
Obviously this did not go down with the majority of careerist empowered strong feminist women and for good reason, this guy just blatantly ignores all of the socially mandated, feminist approved attributes of what a Blue Pill man should look for in a woman and just goes for whatever he judges to be good for himself.
He practically ignores all of what feminism attempts to sell as attractiveness in a woman nowadays. Sassy, independent and Beyonce-gurl power as the kind of woman every “man” should go for? This guy ain’t got no time for that.
And what’s more he has the temerity to be happy about all that, although his gushing praise of his wife does lean into the beta a fair bit, not to mention his body posture in the selfies. This guy isn’t an alpha by any measure, but he somehow manages not to drink the Blue Pill kool-aid most betas do.
This guy simply didn’t get the progressive equality memo, avoided all of the pitfalls and traps that modern feminism tosses out to him in the marketplace, gets what he wants and is happy with it.
Now marriage is a long game and the success of his union will take a lot of hard work, but he has the formative ideas and relationship posture right, which is more than we can say about the masses of hapless betas who constantly wonder why they can’t get woman.
Another thing to note as well, from his account it does appear that his in-laws raised his wife in the ways of femininity and taught her that she needs to offer a complementary value proposition in the union as well, as opposed to the typical entitled princesses we have today that expect things to lean their way all the time. This woman is happy to do things that feminists consider beneath them for her husband. She sees it not as slavery but as her value proposition to the marriage. The heresy! This slavery is supposed to be unhappy!
No wonder the feminists and stronk empowerz gurls are unhappy, this couple basically defies all of their conventions, narratives and hallowed beliefs and dare to be happy. This guy shows that even average chump betas can thwart all the demands of hypergamy if they just have a few right ideas about what woman to choose and what posture and model they want to conduct their relationships in.
This is what they are afraid of, people breaking the progressive gender equality narrative and showing that on the whole, they are much happier doing that than trying to live out feminist boilerplate ideology.
This is also why they will hate and fear you if you are a Red Pill that dares to be happier, more productive and successful than your Blue Pill counterparts. Feminism attempts to sell the lie that men will be happier as compliant, sacrificial Blue Pills that do what they are told for the exclusive benefit of women, no questions asked.
You are a contradiction to all that.
You are showing a better way, you are breaking their narrative.